Learn About Kali
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I’ve know my whole life that I was a woman, and every time I learned something about gender differences which started about age 6, I longed for the feminine side of things. It wasn’t safe for me to transition until I was older, so I began the process a few years ago. It’s been the best decision of my life, and I’ve never felt more at home in my body and in my life.
Outside of my transition, I have moved somewhere around 60 times but spent about 15 years in Colorado before moving to Seattle. So while I wasn’t born in Colorado, it is the place I lived the longest so I claim it as my home state.
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I have been on hormones for a few years, but I have also gotten breast augmentation surgery and facial feminization surgery. I have also had voice training, which I love because I have been in choirs most of my life, so my voice has been something I have loved developing. I pass in most scenarios between my surgeries and my voice, including on the phone. I am very content with the steps I have taken, and looking forward to continuing my transition. I moved to Seattle in the latter half of 2025, and I love it here! The food is incredible, the streets can be a bit confusing but the lush, plentiful trees make it feel magical here.
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With my sexual partners I am a switch, I love making out, and I love having my boobs played with; squeezing, pinching, you can be rough, just nothing that would leave a mark! When I’m turned on, my skin is also sensitive, so tantra (massage with very light, almost feather-like touch anywhere on my body), kissing my neck, and toe sucking all feel incredible.
Some things that I’m not into include rimming (sorry, the movie The Human Centipede ruined that for me so blame them!), and if someone has poor hygiene. Partners have used the shower and other hygiene products if they need. I also don’t like blood play, toilet play, age play, or race play.
I also have experience with a few forms of kink and like catering to my partners. From face-sitting to one piece swimsuit fetishes, and from bed straps to partners who have simply said “show me something new”, I have seen quite a bit and love exploring the world of kink!
I’m also about 6 inches erect, so I’m about average. I love to top or bottom, and I’m fully functional. I know sometimes a variety in sizes is really fun so I also have a pegging kit with some variety in sizes. I have also helped a lot of partners explore what they like so I enjoy being with people whether they are a first timer or experienced.
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If you saw my dating history you would know the answer is no! It matters to me that someone is clean, kind, courteous, and safe. Beyond that though, I’m bisexual and love spending time with people with a variety of ages, cultures, looks, weight, fitness levels, etc. For me, variety is the spice of life and love.
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Growing up, all my family could afford was gaming. We inherited a game system from some family, and I could always replay games so it was a hobby that fit me well. I’ve played games on Atari, computer, every Nintendo console (working on getting a switch 2 soon), every PlayStation Console, and every Xbox console except the series X. It was my escape often, a chance to be someone and somewhere else when I was having a hard time and couldn’t do anything about it. I love a good RPG or shooter, I’m terrified of horror games but like playing them anyways.
Learning is a passion of mine as well, I love learning about science and math and will happily discuss the plausibility of Dyson Spheres, how Hawking radiation works, or whether it will be possible to solve the prime number problem. I also have 2 degrees, Cyber Security and Human Services, and am working on a third in Web Application Development.
I also love going out hiking, and Seattle has been one of the most beautiful places I have lived! I’m looking forward to finding favorite places to hike and travel to in the area!
Reading has always been a hobby of mine, though I ended up taking a break for a few years. My latest fixation has been the Stormlight Archives by Brandon Sanderson (his magic systems are genius in my opinion!). I also enjoy reading about history and science too, so bring your recommendations!
Baking and cooking is a huge comfort for me, some of my best memories are having family recipes to make bread, pies, homemade cherry chocolates or peanut butter cups, and enjoying them with friends and loved ones. I have loved growing this talent, and while I’m not a pro by any means, I love it. I’m also a bit of a foodie, a good steak and a chocolate cake are go-to options for me anywhere I go. I love trying exotic meals , but will eat up a bowl of mac and cheese with hot dogs or a burger from McDonald’s and love it too!
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You’re in luck, many people I meet with are new to meeting people like this. Here’s a few tips to help your first time meeting go smoothly.
Have the donation ready before you arrive and address it at the beginning of the date. This allows me to be fully present for the rest of the date, leading to a much better experience.
Shower shortly before meeting. A clean partner puts me in a great mood. If you have facial hair, try to condition it before you arrive too, really scratchy facial hair can feel a bit like sandpaper!
It’s okay to feel nervous. I may not look it, but while I love meeting new people I get nervous too! Trust that once we start the date that I am interested in getting to know you, and the tension will dissipate pretty quickly after meeting.
If you want to go a bit above and beyond, a small gift does wonders! Chocolates, flowers, fruit, a card, or a note are inexpensive but add a wonderful layer of romance to the date! This isn’t expected, but makes you extra memorable!
